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"Securing the fortress for multiple eras: Strategies for successful multi-generational cohabitation"

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"Multi-generational living: Mastering the art of raising the defensive barrier"
"Multi-generational living: Mastering the art of raising the defensive barrier"

"Securing the fortress for multiple eras: Strategies for successful multi-generational cohabitation"

In the bucolic countryside of Somerset, English teacher Josephine Close and her family have moved back into her childhood home, a decision driven by financial reasons and the current cost-of-living crisis. Her parents, also seeking to downsize, were able to accommodate Josephine's family by redecorating half their house and installing a kitchen for her family.

This multi-generational living arrangement, once uncommon, is on the rise. According to data, the proportion of households that are multi-generational increased from 1.8% in 2011 to 2.1% in 2021. Annabel Rees, an insurance broker living in Wiltshire, is another example of this trend. She and her husband, Tom, were searching for a multi-generational set-up in the summer to accommodate Annabel's mother and provide childcare.

The secret to successful multi-generational living, according to James Walker, a partner at Knight Frank, is the ability to "pull up the drawbridge" when needed. This implies maintaining a degree of separation to go about daily life without constant interaction. Mr. Walker emphasizes the importance of this balance, ensuring that each family member has their own space and independence when needed.

In the affluent Cotswolds, good village houses with substantial annexes or modest cottages can cost upwards of £2 million. However, the premium paid for a multi-generational house may be justified, as it satisfies two potential purchase requirements in one. In Annabel Rees' case, she and her family ended up with separate houses next to each other, which provides benefits for both parties.

The term "unicorn" house was used by estate agents to describe the type of house Annabel Rees and her family were looking for. This unique accommodation would cater to their needs, allowing them to live close yet independently.

The increase in multi-generational households is seen as a growing acceptance rather than a trend by James Walker. This shift in family dynamics is driven by various factors, including soaring nursery fees and the desire for extended family support.

Josephine Close was surprised by how the multi-generational living arrangement does not feel like a step back into her childhood home. Her family is able to be independent when they want to be in their part of the house. She realizes how fortunate she was to grow up in the idyllic oasis where she now lives with her family.

Agreeing on the living arrangement can be a stumbling block and requires careful consideration of each family member's needs and financial contributions. In Annabel Rees and her husband Tom's case, they were searching for a multi-generational accommodation in Hamburg, where they currently reside, before settling for a similar arrangement in the UK.

In multi-generational living arrangements, a plan or a phone call to invite family members over for visits is essential. This ensures that everyone has their own space while also fostering a sense of family unity. As more families consider this living arrangement, it is clear that careful planning and consideration are crucial for its success.

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