Families with Grandparents Regularly Present at Their Adult Children's Residences Adopt Distinct Approaches in Five Key Areas
In a heartwarming visit to her children on the West Coast, Diane N. Quintana, a Certified Professional Organizer® and owner of DNQ Solutions, LLC based in Atlanta, Georgia, shared some valuable insights on how grandparents can make their visits with their adult children enjoyable for everyone.
During her stay in San Francisco with her son and his family, and nearby a hotel when visiting the other son, Quintana practiced offering advice only when asked. She understood that asking permission gives the other person control, a practice she also applies to her clients.
Quintana, who is a grandmother herself, knows when to be silent and give advice without lecturing. She offers help without insisting, whether it's assisting with laundry, cooking, or washing dishes. However, she respects her children's decisions when her offer to help is not accepted, understanding that there may be reasons she is not aware of.
Grandparents who are welcomed by their adult children's homes practice these principles, ensuring a harmonious visit for all. Quintana hopes her tips help others have a happy visit with their adult children, whether they are physically staying with them or visiting nearby.
Interestingly, Quintana's visit this year was longer, involving a flight to San Francisco and a car rental to Lake Tahoe. Despite the distance and differences in living arrangements - her son in San Francisco lives with his family, while the other son lives in a tiny one-room loft condo without space for visitors - Quintana managed to make the most of her time with her grandchildren.
In another related matter, a grandfather recently questioned if he was wrong for wanting to spend time with one grandson while excluding the other. Quintana suggests all grandparents should ask themselves three questions before giving parenting advice to their adult children, to ensure their actions are fair and considerate.
Quintana's visit ended on a high note, with great photos and memories of the time spent together. She returned home feeling grateful and happy, ready to apply these principles in her future visits. These tips for grandparents are applicable not only when staying with their children but also when visiting friends. After all, the goal is to create lasting memories and strengthen the bond between generations.
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